Tuesday, November 30, 2010

silent

Found this notes on my friend's fb page.



Bila belum siap melangkah lebih jauh dengan seseorang, cukup cintai ia dalam diam ...
karena diammu adalah salah satu bukti cintamu padanya ...
kau ingin memuliakan dia, dengan tidak mengajaknya menjalin hubungan yang terlarang,
kau tak mau merusak kesucian dan penjagaan hatinya..

karena diammu...

itu dapat memuliakan kesucian diri dan hatimu..
menghindarkan dirimu dari hal-hal yang akan merusak izzah dan iffahmu ..

karena diammu...
itu dapat menunjukkan bukti kesetiaanmu padanya ..
karena mungkin saja orang yang kau cinta adalah juga orang yang telah ALLAH swt.
pilihkan untukmu ...

ingatkah kalian tentang kisah Fatimah dan ALI ?
yang keduanya saling memendam apa yang mereka rasakan ...
tapi pada akhirnya mereka dipertemukan dalam ikatan suci nan indah

sahabat...

karena dalam diammu tersimpan kekuatan ...
kekuatan harapan ...
hingga mungkin saja Allah akan membuat harapan itu menjadi nyata hingga cintamu yang diam itu dapat berbicara dalam kehidupan nyata ...
bukankah Allah tak akan pernah memutuskan harapan hamba yang berharap padanya ?

dan jika memang 'cinta dalam diammu' itu tak memiliki kesempatan untuk berbicara di dunia nyata,biarkan ia tetap diam ...

kerna...

jika dia memang bukan milikmu, toh Allah, melalui waktu akan menghapus 'cinta dalam diammu' itu dengan memberi rasa yang lebih indah dan orang yang tepat untukmu...

biarkan 'cinta dalam diammu' itu menjadi memori tersendiri dan sudut hatimu menjadi rahasia antara kau dengan Sang Pemilik hatimu ...

karena yakinlah…. Allah kan memberikan ganti yang lebih baik lagi atau mewujudkan mimpimu di kemudian hari.. bersabarlah dalam diammu…

Yupp.betul gak tu.try mencintai dlm senyap.But it's kinda hard to keep myself silent la.haish.xpe la.I just shared my feeling with few ppl that close in my life la k.hihihi

twilight wannabe



what makes me think this "Ponti Anak Remaja" = Twilight saga?

#Blood sucking
#Animal blood suck for the "good" vampire
#Kebolehan mendengar dari jauh
#Ade satu geng vampire yg hot kat college
#clumsy girl (liyana jasmay & Bella)

The diff things is abt the paku + bunga harum mekar malam tu.
haha.

adjust to being single

When a couple has been together for a while, the choices they make on where to have dinner, how to decorate their home, their personal choice in clothing, or other decisions are usually made together. After a break up, each person may not know his or her own likes and dislikes. Take some time to try new things. Learn your favorite foods, what hobbies you enjoy, where you like to go for dining or entertainment. This can be a time of experimentation and can be enjoyable. You will find that many of the things you’ve always done may not have been your own personal choice.
Give yourself time.

Therapists recommend a minimum of one year after a break up to get grounded as a person and avoid rebound.

A year is only a guideline. Some people may need longer in order to feel they have gotten themselves grounded.
Be patient with yourself and don’t rush things.
Rebound relationships are not fair to either party.

Join some groups or clubs that interest you.

Many newly single people join a single recovery group and that is the first interaction they have with others as a single person. It can be helpful to find a group you can be a part of, whether it’s a writer’s group, bird watching, book club, or whatever you like. Getting out there and getting involved will help you move forward in your life.

Make new friends and develop a support system.

Some of your friends may not feel comfortable socializing with a single person, especially if they are also friends with your ex's. You may find you have more in common with other singles, so seek out people that have common interests. This may be the time to strengthen relationships with your biological family. Having someone to talk to during this transition can make it much easier to.

Life is different single but that doesn’t mean it can’t be fun and fulfilling. More and more people today choose to remain single, and really enjoy the single lifestyle.

Think of the good things that being single has done for you.
Take time to enjoy yourself and laugh often. Laughter really is good medicine.

Single people often complain that has changed and they don’t know the new rules. The only rules are to do what feels comfortable for you. You don’t have to conform for anyone.
Be yourself and be true to yourself.

By easing through the transition from being half of a couple to being single, you give yourself time to make a life that is happy and fulfilling.
Be patient with yourself and you just might find you like being single!

2# single quotes

"I don't need a man to rectify my existence. The most profound relationship we'll ever have is the one with ourselves." - Shirley MacLaine

Monday, November 29, 2010

1#single quotes

I must learn to love the fool in me the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries." - Theodore Isaac Rubin

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Last week update

My bro n his fmly kat Pd.huhu

Nampak bus ni time odw g midvaley.Bus ni utk students nazi ke?huhu

Harap2 da besar ensem dan not a player oke danish :)

me and my sis in law ;Adilla :)
Iklan BR x official lg.huhu

Baskin robin especially for fara louise :p hihi *midvly*

My favret iceream mango at lecka lecka :D nom nom *alam-anda*


Ni antara bende2 yang dilakukan sepanjang last week.PD-KL-ALAMANDA-DLL.hihihi.Best nye kalau cmni hari2.wuuuu

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

whyyyyy

can someone please push me to study.
anyone??? T__T


Monday, November 15, 2010

french

It just happened to be that i realized french is the most sexiest language in the world.
je t'aime<3
:)